Would you rather allow the child to be born to a single mother that is overworked and suffers with post pardom depression (especially since she was forced to have a child), becomes mentally unstable, and then inevitably the child suffers a life of abuse and neglect before eventually either being murdered by their mother or commit suicide? Sounds harsh right? Well it happens all the time with mothers who chose to keep the child, just imagine how it would be with a woman that didn't want it in the first place.

Well, I've gone to college. In my childhood development class, lifespan psychology class, and abnormal psychology class, we've gone over fetal development. Yes the heart begins to beat very early, but there isn't even a stem of a brain until way later. The simply truth is that a fetus is not viable until 22 weeks, so its not a person yet. It has the genetic outline, but that's about it. I'm pro choice, and not just because of rape and, well, basic human rights, but if abortion were illegal, then so many children would be born with painful, awful, debilitating diseases. Abortion stops the horrible life of children before they begin, which I would be thankful for. There are horribly painful defects possible that no human should have to endure. So sometimes, abortion saves.

Ha! Gotta love you guests, always such assholes its so beautiful I might cry :')

My grandpa set himself on fire in his front yard one day while I was over. He was schizophrenic. I loved him very much, but believe me when I say time heals you. A very good friend of mine killed himself in 2012. I loved him very much, but time healed me. My uncle drank himself to death and passed from liver failure last year. I loved him very much. But time is healing me. I know its so incredibly hard right now. I know it feels like there's a boulder on your chest and your insides are tearing themselves apart. But I PROMISE you, it won't feel that way forever, time is a beautiful blessing and truly does his job. The scars will always be there, but if you allow time pass, it will stop bleeding. I will suggest seeking therapy so that you can be guided through this process, many places give a free first session and non-profits tailor their prices to your budget and situation. If you need anything else, please email me at [email protected]
I'm so sorry for your loss

Its not a matter of hurting someone's feelings, its a life altering experience and for some it is for the worse. The information should most certainly be put out into the world for people to discover it but on their own terms when they are ready to know the "truth". If someone is not ready to face this truth, whatever it may be, yet it is forced upon them (which arguing about it does), it will impact their lives in substantial ways. Like I have said, I'm a 100% atheist with VERY little doubt or questioning (of course I keep my mind open to information, but so far with all the data I have collected, I'm very certain in my conclusion that a God or Gods do not exist). But I can handle that realization because I myself went through the work of research, but forcing it onto someone else such as in an argument will do more harm than good.

But all that is doing is trying to disprove a religion, and I think religion is important for those who need it. Some people just cannot live with the idea that nothing happens when you die, that evil things happen because some people are just evil, etc. Many people, especially when loved ones pass, sons, daughters, grandparents, mothers, fathers, people need to believe that they are in a better place. I couldn't bear taking that feeling of security and hope away from someone, and that's what arguing about it does.

And then nine months later... ;)

And there is no shame in that, Andy is a beautiful, beautiful man

And Dune!!

tylerchu! Archery team buddy where you at?