Well were you there ?

It sounds far fetched- but I’ve seen it done. Usually when. Friend or family member who is known for being their own biggest roadblock in life finds a wonderful person who does them well and puts them on a good path for a change- so whatever gene or sickness they have for messing up their life comes around and they tank it- often in the most spectacularly self destructive or wasteful way possible, then go back to a downwards spiral in life of failure and unhappiness. So I could believe it. Hell- I’ve said similar to partners of friends before.

My daughters grandma( on her dads side ) said I was too good for him but shes happy that we had her even if we arent together anymore. I'm happy too btw