If we can have a long lasting and happy relationship with some lady, we won’t mind the presence of breasts or butt much. Those two are for distractions only.
I'm going to betray my people here: a lot of men say they want kids and a family solely to make women want to sleep with them. For a lot of men, kids are an inevitable accident, not a goal.
While some do want the family but only after it "accidently" happens.