The struggle is real

I literally asked myself this a couple hours ago.

Lower your standards.

Pictures with pets

Lowering your graphic settings should do the trick

I don't know what happens when you start paying... so... idk.

The best way to lower difficulty level in dating is by being happy and content in your single life. Beyond that-Take good pictures- have an experienced friend with an artistic eye review them. Have someone who is good at portrait and candid photography take pictures for you. You can also pay for both these services. Peer review your text before posting, edit and rewrite as needed, and you can use other social meeting platforms you are less invested in to “BETA test” and refine your pitch. Track metrics and save previous entries data and text, compare results and contrast revisions, reformat future responses for length, tone, content, etc. based on this data. Work on improving your interpersonal and communication skills, and expand your repertoire of skills and known restaraunts or places of interest. Have a vast and broad knowledge so that you can talk about most things and have a specific activity in mind which you can propose based on the subject of discussion.