And literally not a single f*uck was given that day

about what

If the brother is playing with pc with headphones on, the brother is not playing with the boyfriend... but the boyfriend is playing with the brother. Red flag.

Or they are playing with more than eachother. Or they don't want the whole house hearing the game. Or they prefer to blick ambient sound with headphones while playing. Maybe get your mind out of the gutter.

'Japanese flag red' red flag.