fuckers, if she gives you a fake number. shes. not. interested. but youre creeping her out to the point she feels the need to give you a fake number. its not hard to understand.
Yeah no shit. I'm asking how does that have anything to do with this?
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I think it's fucked up to lead a person on like that though. If you're really that creeped out about someone tell them no. It's not even that difficult. No is no and they should understand that. It makes you more of an asshole to give them a fake number than to turn them down.
listen, i say this as a man. i am a cis man. but oh boy i do not look it, i get harassed alot. and not once in my experience has a straight guy hitting on me taked no for an answer.
Ahh,so you hate all (or at least most) members of your own gender just bc of a bad experience or two..that's sooo much better. I'm a chick bro,and any bad experiences I've had will never dictate how I feel about an entire group of people. Don't get me wrong,you don't deserve to be harassed,but you shouldn't paint individuals with such a broad brush.
bruh, when did i say i hate men? for fucks sake im gay. what i said was a lot of guys have some serious issues taking no for an answer, and that if someone gives them a fake number, not to haras them over it.
He actually said 99% of the time in his experience.
I'm just pointing that out, I don't want to get involved in this. But I think that sometimes the person might feel awkward and not know how to get out of the conversation, and then feel even more awkward telling the person they can't have their number. I'm like that, myself, so it's not necessarily that the person is leading the other person on.
I hate to say it (but from experience)-- sometimes it's a safety thing. Not that you actually want to mistreat every man by misleading, but that you want to escape a situation unharmed, unharassed, and un-stalked. If they are hounding you and seem unhinged. Not justifying this, as practiced habitually...
I'm not attractive enough for guys to hit on me, but if it were to happen and he didn't accept the fact that I'm a lesbian, I'd probably have a fake number in handy so I could correct him and mislead him.
I'm just pointing that out, I don't want to get involved in this. But I think that sometimes the person might feel awkward and not know how to get out of the conversation, and then feel even more awkward telling the person they can't have their number. I'm like that, myself, so it's not necessarily that the person is leading the other person on.