Hey I do. Most strippers do it cause they need the money. There's nothing wrong with that. I think it's pathetic for the people that go to see them. Like really, you can't find anyone that loves you, so you gotta pay people to make you feel good? That's just my opinion.
But wouldn't it be better that they do though? Strippers do it for the money, if people didn't come and see them, wouldn't that make it impossible for them to earn money by stripping?
(I don't go to strip clubs, these are just my considerations)
i don't see why anyone should talk bad about anyone, really. i mean, if you also can glide down an upright metallic pole slowly while looking sexy but actually do it better than all of the strippers i guess that give you permission to talk shit about their performance. otherwise no.
as for the people who go see them... well, i too like to look at pretty things? i go to see a museum collection of butterflies and pay for it...it's kinda the same thing right?
if you really want to bitch about someone, bitch about the rude people who grab strippers, tip them badly and harrass them.
fine, cross out the museum and insert a ballet performance. happy now?
i think it's pretty clear i did not try to objectify anyone. my point was both stippers and butterflies and ballet dancers etc are beautiful, pleasant to watch and there's honestly nothing wrong with enjoying that as long as you're behaving yourself. same goes the other way around. if you don't shame ballet dancers you shouldn't shame the strippers either. of course the ballet dancers put a lot more work in their performance etc etc but when it comes down to it, they're both just people paid to do asethetically pleasing things and they should not be shamed for it.
Stripper is an entirely acceptable career. They make more money than as a fastfood worker and they gotta deal with worse people. Plus not everybody can be a stripper. It's a lot of hard work. If I could get in shape I'd be one.
This kind of reminds me of all the people who harass and make fun of female porn stars (like saying they must have daddy issues or are whores), but no one ever says anything about all the male porn stars that are in the videos with them. Separate issue, I know, but it reminded me of that.
(I don't go to strip clubs, these are just my considerations)
as for the people who go see them... well, i too like to look at pretty things? i go to see a museum collection of butterflies and pay for it...it's kinda the same thing right?
if you really want to bitch about someone, bitch about the rude people who grab strippers, tip them badly and harrass them.
i think it's pretty clear i did not try to objectify anyone. my point was both stippers and butterflies and ballet dancers etc are beautiful, pleasant to watch and there's honestly nothing wrong with enjoying that as long as you're behaving yourself. same goes the other way around. if you don't shame ballet dancers you shouldn't shame the strippers either. of course the ballet dancers put a lot more work in their performance etc etc but when it comes down to it, they're both just people paid to do asethetically pleasing things and they should not be shamed for it.