Okay I have no problem but sometimes when it's an important event and my female friends' bra strap shows like outside their outfit it's really distracting. Takes your eye away from the nice clothes to that one strap that sticks out and I'm just like "go,... Go back"
Somewhat understandable, but the thing that annoys me is when it's like, I'm at school. I'm wearing a t-shirt and jeans, yep, I'm wearing a bra, congrats. Are you worried that it's going to pervert young boy's minds to see a bra strap? Cause if they've ever gone swimming, they have probably seen more.
It's like telling a man that the back of his shirt is un-tucked. It's not a sexual thing at all. It's just a heads up that part of your outfit is out of place. Whether the person cares or not is not up to us to know.
This has nothing to do with being female. Its a courtesy statement to let you know part of your outfit isn't as it should be. Would be the same as saying:
-hey your shirt is untucked in the back
-your fly is down
-you missed a belt loop
-your underwear is showing (could be considered inappropriate)
-your tie is crooked
-one of your buttons is undone
-hey your shirt is untucked in the back
-your fly is down
-you missed a belt loop
-your underwear is showing (could be considered inappropriate)
-your tie is crooked
-one of your buttons is undone