The legal age of 16 in japan was incredibly misleading. Each province had its own age of consent and pretty much all of them were 18

I just want to note as well
In Marvel Rivals, Squirrel Girl is thicc, attractive, but not sexualised.
It’s possible to make a diverse cast attractive, because beauty is subjective. Concord is just hard coping because they can’t even get a colour palette right

Surely you have the media literacy skills to understand that entertainment media is meant to present a dramatised version of reality?
Comparing your real self to fictional characters is something mentally unwell people do.
(Note that empathising with them is not the same)
If you want to make a game that represents reality, sure, put all shapes, sizes and colours of people in it.
But don’t expect people to buy it based on that alone.
As a baseline, if people don’t want to cosplay your character, it’s a bad character, full stop.